Splitting your theme: <include>
A serious theme does not fit in a single file.
<include> loads another file at that exact spot, as if its content were copied there.
<include>${root}/views/system.xml</include>
<include path="${root}/views/detailed.xml" />
Both spellings work: the path as the tag's content, or as a path attribute.
Order matters
Recalbox reads top to bottom, and two components with the same name replace each other: the last one wins.
That is the whole overlay mechanism — and it is how theme options are built: each choice is a file loaded on top, redefining only what changes. See What an option is.
<include>${root}/views/base.xml</include> <!-- paints the background blue -->
<include>${root}/options/rouge.xml</include> <!-- repaints it red -->
Including under a condition
An <include> accepts if=, like a component: the file is only loaded if the condition is true.
<include if="crt">${root}/views/system-crt.xml</include>
That is how you serve a different layout per screen, without duplicating everything else. The list of conditions is in Conditional display.